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“She was awesome person so sorry to hear about her death wish I seen her before her death ”
1 of 11 | Posted by: Simone Sommerville - Windsor lock, CT

“Our deepest condolences. ”
2 of 11 | Posted by: Melissa Lorenzetti - Quincy, MA

“pam was a wonderful friend to me all she wanted was love and friendship and we had great times together will always be in my heart until eternity, i...Read More »
3 of 11 | Posted by: jeanie rabbett - vernon, CT

“Rest in peace, Pam. You are a sweet soul and I hope you find solace in your transition to greener pastures. ”
4 of 11 | Posted by: Brittany Kane

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6 of 11 | Posted by: A friend

“I am so grateful for the past three years. We may have only shared phone calls but it was everything to me. I love you.... ”
7 of 11 | Posted by: Pat Stone - Manchester, NH

“Your mother was always soSweet to me every time I saw her. She will e missed! Thinking of you guys. Please let me know if there is anything you need...Read More »
8 of 11 | Posted by: Angelina Battista - Friend

“Pam and I grew up together and I've been deeply affected by her loss. Although I haven't seen her in a number of years, I thought of her often and...Read More »
9 of 11 | Posted by: Al Morneau - Windsor Locks, CT

“I did not know her but am so sorry for your loss. ”
10 of 11 | Posted by: Jeanne

“With deepest sympathy during this time of difficulty. ”
11 of 11 | Posted by: Carmon Community Funeral Homes - CT

Pamela Ann Cote, 62, of Enfield, passed away Friday, October 28, 2016. Born in Gary, Indiana, she was raised by her mother the late Irma Stuffler in the Poquonock Section of Windsor and had lived in East Windsor for several years. Pamela enjoyed cooking, gardening and swimming. She loved animals of all types. She leaves her daughter Tracie Marie Gilman and her husband Warren and their daughter Sperry of Braintree, MA; her son Thomas P. Cote, Jr. and his wife Kimberly Howard of Southington; a brother Steve Curtis and his wife Carol of FL; a sister Pat Stone and her husband Kenny of NH; and her former husband Thomas Cote, Sr. of Windsor. A Memorial service celebrating her life will be held at a date and time in the future. Please see our website for details. The Carmon Windsor Funeral Home is caring for the arrangements. For directions, condolences, of further information please visit

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